Bonjour mes amis,
I remember that the last time I left a restaurant in a bit of a state was because the music was so loud I could barely think let alone have a conversation with my dinner guest. Finding the right performer or music for your big day may feel like a big task in itself, and you’d be right! It can be a challenge to find music that not only you and your partner love but your guests will also enjoy.
I remember that the last time I left a restaurant in a bit of a state was because the music was so loud I could barely think let alone have a conversation with my dinner guest. Finding the right performer or music for your big day may feel like a big task in itself, and you’d be right! It can be a challenge to find music that not only you and your partner love but your guests will also enjoy.
If you’ve got an idea or an expectation of how you'd like the music to be played or when be sure to provide your band, performers or wedding planner (whichever route you’ve taken – remember with modern technology you can also have complete control of this if you choose to use your iPod) with this information. No one can read your mind and chances are whoever you hire is not there to make a rock and roll comeback…at least you hope they’re not! They are there to provide the soundtrack to your wedding day and if you get it right add a little extra romance and excitement to the occasion. Also, consider that they are most likely seasoned professionals and can offer useful advice on stage placement, or suitable times for music to be played. 
This brings me nicely to the next step…your playlist. Do you play your favourite song, or that piece of music that brings back happy memories? Do you go all out and entertain your guests and create the perfect atmosphere? The answer is, all of the above. You have to remember, this is YOUR wedding so it is YOU that has to be happy. Play your favourite tunes. Mix it up with some soft dinner music so guests can carry on conversations while savouring their delicious meals. Have a great band or choose great music that your guests will appreciate and help create your desired atmosphere. You know your guests better than any one else involved in your wedding so follow your instincts. For example, if you have some rowdy guests who believe downing a bottle of scotch is the ultimate sign of masculinity then a harpist isn’t going to stand a chance. 
I suppose at the end of the day you really have to consider why something is called a cliché. Generally, it’s because it just works. I’m most definitely not saying that you shouldn’t dare to be different, I’m all for thinking outside the square – what I’m saying is think things through to ensure it will be the perfect fit to the wedding you have spent endless hours planning.
Fun fact: It has been researched that a marriage may not be so successful if the bride danced down the aisle to the ever so famous Steps song Tragedy. Remember, there is a difference between cringe-worthy and clichéd.
I suppose at the end of the day you really have to consider why something is called a cliché. Generally, it’s because it just works. I’m most definitely not saying that you shouldn’t dare to be different, I’m all for thinking outside the square – what I’m saying is think things through to ensure it will be the perfect fit to the wedding you have spent endless hours planning.Fun fact: It has been researched that a marriage may not be so successful if the bride danced down the aisle to the ever so famous Steps song Tragedy. Remember, there is a difference between cringe-worthy and clichéd.
Hot Tip: Check with your venue if there are any noise restrictions so you don't receive any complaints or are surprised with a request to turn the volume down. This is particularly important to keep in mind when booking live performers.
Victoria & Amber x
Victoria & Amber x
Photographs courtesy of:
Ben Clark Photography - http://www.benclarkphotography.com.au
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